Tackling - And Overcoming - Your Worst Days

“Your neck still just isn’t extending like I’d like to see it extend. It’s like it’s resisting. And that makes me wonder if YOU are resisting something? If God is maybe asking you to release something and rest in Him?”

Staring at an Xray, teary-eyed and full of conviction, my dear chiropractor spoke these words to me as she evaluated my progress over the past few months of her care. She felt compelled to bring this resistance in my neck to my attention because she saw it as a reflection of a potentially bigger need my body, mind, or spirit is projecting in this particular, physical way.

I took her concern and care as a confirmation of what I had been feeling recently myself deep within and privately. Like my healing is on the cusp of leveling up and yet I'm held back. Like the puzzle is missing a piece or two and I don't know where to look. Like I'm staring at the holes in the big picture and can't quite figure out what piece would even fit there, and debating how much those few holes really matter in the long run. 

This conversation with the chiro on my healing team was a clue. It was a direct answer to my searching, if not an actual piece of my healing puzzle. 

What my chiropractor didn’t necessarily know is that I’ve had some really hard days lately. These days were tough physically, but also definitely mentally and emotionally too. We KNOW these components of ourselves are all related & crucial to deal with to further our healing. We can’t ignore any of them and expect to move forward in healing. We can't just stare at the holes where the missing pieces should go and accept the puzzle as "good enough." Our body keeps the score. The incomplete puzzle can't go back in the box that way. It also can't be deemed "finished." The limbo is the leveling up point if we allow it to be. If we don’t see it ourselves, someone dear to us who God has placed there as our healing guide and "prophet" will be made aware and speak healing truth over us in love. 

Once you can acknowledge, even accept, the tough times, THEN you can SEE the missing pieces for what they are. You can move forward in tackling what's missing to complete the healing picture. And THAT'S huge! THAT'S where leveling up your healing starts!

I recently offered some of my biggest tips for tackling these tough days & times along the journey. I’ll outline my best tips here for you, and if you’d like to dive into them a little deeper, I invite you to jump into Lyme-y & Crunchy and catch the video I did there ALL about the ins and outs of these 6 tricks for taking tough days and letting them lead to your level up.

  1. Grace. You MUST honor your body and yourself and your healing. 

  2. Take care of your body and physical self. Even if HARD, do the things (to the best of your ability, with grace!) that can move the needle on furthering your healing. Don’t halt healing just because it’s hard.

  3. Phone a friend. Even if you don’t want to. Know “your people” and tap into them.

  4. Get outside. Nature is healing!

  5. Use essential oils. They can act as a therapeutic agent AND a great reset for body, mind, & spirit because of their unique properties. **I’m talking QUALITY oils here. If you don’t know what that looks like, PLEASE ask or you risk harming yourself. <3

  6. Have some “go to” mindset resets. This is shockingly helpful AND imperative for fighting back against the worst in your own head. 


I have many ideas about executing these steps in the video I did about this topic in Lyme-y & Crunchy. Which ones are speaking to you right now? Know that I’ll be joining you in exercising all of these while I work on listening to my body and the wisdom of those with a front row seat to my healing journey. There is no rush. Only forward movement, one step at a time, as I embrace my healing and all of its ups & downs. 

2 Comments

  1. This spoke to me on shouting-from-the-rooftop levels.
  2. Julie Julie Niedwick  07/27/2021 09:20 PM Central
    So glad to be part of your healing journey!! ❤️

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          Half my lifetime ago I was expecting to be permanently disabled or even dead at a young age unless I found a way back to hope and health. As a result of a mystery illness, I was nearly bed-ridden as a teenager. Sometimes I had to CRAWL up the 7 steps to my bedroom to get to bed because I couldn’t walk that far. I HAD to nap every single day. I was in *constant* burning, aching pain throughout my body and experienced exhaustion and brain fog so bad I could barely communicate. I had quit all sports, babysitting and other jobs. My ambitions, successes, sense of self, and LIFE were slipping through my fingers. I had been misdiagnosed with autoimmune conditions for years only to finally discover that Lyme disease and co-infections were the primary culprit of my medical mysteries. At the time of my diagnosis, I was spiraling into depression, helplessness, and hopelessness.  I had no idea where this journey would take me, but I could not see a light at the end of it, and that was just plain scary.
 
          My mom took me to many doctors, but none specialized in Lyme and tick borne illnesses. They all treated the symptoms I was having as best as they could, but I was still getting slowly worse, or having side effects from medications I was being put on. So my mom and I sought alternative options out of desperation. Homeopathy, diet changes, proper supplements, and rest finally started to lead me into healing and the fog started to lift. During that time, myofascial release from a certified massage therapist was one of the most helpful modalities I tried. She used essential oils too, and that was officially my first introduction to their power. All of these alternative options helped me survive, start to thrive, and begin the next leg of my journey: becoming a nurse. I thrived in a career that combined science, research, and helping others through their suffering and health goals. In my young adult years, I finally had the opportunity to continue my treatment and health journey with a Lyme specialist, which has helped me heal more fully than I ever would have thought possible 10yrs ago. 

          I knew that as I got married, started a family, and was working on healing my body, I had some big goals: 1) to be there for my family and to be able to care for them fully and 2) to have a non-toxic home and life in order to live our best lives. My cousin shared with me some of her journey, which had similarities to my own. She was using some things I was already curious about, including essential oils and specialized supplements. I was HOOKED after the first sample I tried! I could now clearly visualize the next steps of my healing journey - hope had returned!
              
          Now, I have endless hope. I can LIVE LIFE. This is the healthiest I’ve truly been since about age 14 and I’m thriving! I’ve been able to advocate for my own 4 babies, 3 of whom have ended up with Lyme too. I’m dedicated to using my nursing background and love of education in combination with appreciation for functional medicine and alternative therapies to help everyone I can. My hope is renewed. I am empowered and equipped. I’m enjoying and embracing the journey and want to help YOU to be able to have all of that too!

          If you're ready to link arms with me and walk this journey together, please reach out! I'd LOVE to hear from you!


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